Remembering
Shakuntala Tai Nafde
Mrs.
Shakuntala Nafde, loving called `Tai’ went to Beloved
Baba on 13 March 2009 at 6.50 PM. She was 82. Avatar Meher
Baba had said that God
cannot be understood, discussed and
explained.
God
can only be
lived. Living the God should
be the
goal of our lives.
Shakuntala Tai
Nafde lived God by living Meher Baba’s Wish for His lovers.
It
was the year of 1950 when Shakuntala Tai’s great destiny
made her have Beloved Baba’s darshan. Since
then she, along
with her devout
Baba lover husband Sri Damodar Yashwant Nafde
who was loving called
`Bhau’, never
missed a Baba Sahvas program. Both of them were specially loved by
Beloved Baba
and respected by Baba lovers. She was always a
‘not-so-visible’ presence in
Baba programs organized by Hamirpur, Andhra and other Baba centers in
the
country. ‘Not-so-visible’
because she would take
charge of the kitchen there
and will get busy serving Baba lovers. Exuding love and care,
Tai Nafde
would
touch their hearts with her selfless service. It was fifty years ago
– in the
year 1959 – Bhau Nafde started Avatar Meher Baba Center in
Bhopal. Shakuntala
Tai helped her husband in organizing various activities of the center.
The Center
participated in the two great Kumbha Melas and disseminated Beloved
Baba’s
message of Love and Truth there. A Kumbha Mela or festival is a mega
congregation of lovers of God – saints, religious heads,
devout men and women –
who gather in enormous numbers, running in millions, along the bank of
a holy
river selected for the purpose. Shakuntala Tai took the charge of
kitchen run
by the Center, feeding those who visited the Center’s stall
over there. Shakuntala
Tai’s surrender at the feet of her Beloved
Meher Baba was
unconditional and complete.
Last
moments of her life deserve special mention. Having
fallen seriously sick she was shifted to a hospital.
She had become
quite
feeble and could speak with great difficulty. Most of the time, she
kept on
gazing at the ceiling of the hospital room. She would sometime murmur
about Baba’s
Guru Prasad Sahvas programs in Pune. On 13 March around 6.40 PM she
appeared to
be deeply absorbed and silent. Her family members wanted her to
remember
Beloved Baba and Baba’s Name in her last moments. Her son
tried to focus her
attention on a picture of Beloved Baba. She did not respond. Her
grand-daughter
then tried to show her a Baba picture on her cell phone. She amazed
everybody
there when she pushed aside the cell phone and said loudly in a steady
voice,
“Why are you all sitting? Stand up. See Meher Baba has come.
He is amidst us
now. Get up everybody.” She then breathed her last and left
the body.
Narrating
all this one is reminded of Beloved
Baba’s Wish
wherein He has said: “I say with my Divine Authority to each
and all that
whosoever take my name at the time of breathing his last comes to me:
so do not
forget to remember me in your last moments.” But for
Shakuntala Tai, Meher Baba
came Himself to hold her hand and escort her beyond.
Avatar
Meher Baba Ki Jai !
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